To be an energetic person. Most swinger couples are in their middle ages so that their energies are not as good as the past. They decide to live a threesome lifestyle because they wish to find something they have lost but they can get them back when they stay with you. You are expected to be a person who will set them free from the monotony and with whom they would like to spend their spare time. Trying to be a different “you” from now on is the first step to be a smart threesome partner.
Follow their ideas. We all know the fact that middle-aged couples should have more experiences in sexual activities and they would know what can make both you and them get satisfied. When you come along with them, them will know exactly where you are going, which hotel you will stay and what will be for dinner. That is the way in their life which would take you some time to get used to. You can only follow their ideas and you are promised that they won’t let you down if you can make them happy.
Keep the relationship a secret. It is not wise to tell anyone else about this special relationship between you and your partners. Both threesome couples and singles have their own lives so they do not want someone to know about this relationship. As your partners have already been married, they surely hope their family and children would never be affected by you or the relationship. You’d better not mention your partners and tell anyone about what is going on in your three way relationship, even if to your best friends.
Try your best to meet their needs. A threesome dating relationship between a single and a couple is based on the idea of mutual benefits wherein both the single and the couple can get what they want from each other. Now that it is called mutual benefits, you should try your best to meet your partners’ needs once they can offer many things to you when you are making arrangements. Only when you do this, you can keep the relationship healthy for a long time.