Although the reason for your breakup may be justified, your desire to rekindle the old feelings is normal. We are eager to be attached and eager for new one night hookup. When we have the opportunity and especially when our current relationship is at stake, it is normal to make your choice and you might choose to embrace the new one.
Let's face it. It's easier to spend time with the exes than to spend a few hours browsing the hookup apps and going on crazy dating. We are usually not interested in new people, because we have to get to know them. It takes time. When we were with our exes, we already knew each other very well about what we like and dislike. It is indeed trouble-saving and pleasant to come back to our exes than starting a new relationship. Here is how you should do.
Take baby steps
I know. You are with your exe again. It is so exciting. However, before you send your couple pics to Instagram, and go back directly to your parents, calm down. For what speed you should move at? You should take as much time as both of you need to get warm again with each other, otherwise, one of you is going to fall behind.
Figure out what you really want
This is your chance to bring out all the cards, so don't be afraid to face reality and don’t be afraid to be honest with each other. You need to be happy in a relationship. Asking yourself what your expectations are in a relationship and what qualities you want from your partner.
Is there anything you can improve this time which is missed in the last time of your relationship? Is the reason for your break up still existing between you? What is the reason? You need to be completely honest with each other before you get back together. If the old problem remains, you will be ended up with the same result and with the same reason.
But if you want to keep the reason in your heart, you need to seriously ask yourself, are you be able to live with that? Are you able to put that problem all behind you and head for a whole new relationship? If you are just looking for one night hookup to remind you of the old times, maybe you should find another person for it. If you are hoping to get back together starting with one night dating, this is definitely the wrong approach.