When you are using 3rder for a swinglifestyle, you have to make sure you have a real picture for your profile. If
you don’t do this, the app will not give you matches because it doesn’t allow
users to know each other without a profile picture. On the other hand, other
users will choose to pass you if they don’t know what you look like at the
beginning. Please remember to upload a photo after creating your profile and
make sure your face is visible clearly. There is no need for you to be shay
about showing your face because everyone is planning for a 3some dating here.